What Claudius says is a fantasy very common in the young people, and the adults even: the hymen obturates all the vaginal entrance. In fact it is an elastic membrane, an embryonic remainder without no utility, that borders the vaginal wall but without occluding it. Therefore, there is no problem so that it leaves the menstruation. When yes it occludes it totally – made rare luckily -, imperforado hymen is denominated: the blood does not lower, it is accumulated in the uterus (hematocolpos) and is necessary to make an operation. But in the immense majority of the cases the hymen is like an edge that allows with all facility the peneana penetration unless, by little lubrication or fear, it becomes uncomfortable or it bothers.

A penetration can be painful the first physiological or even external time, for both, if it becomes of an abrupt way and without a vaginal lubrication, (I advise, in certain cases, to also lubricate the penis). This is a much more valid reason that the rupture of the hymen; even, often, there are neither pain nor no sanguineous losses or are in minimum amount. The hymen can “be broken” in gymnastic practices, equitación, cycling or during some effort.

Of all ways conservation of hymen until marriage, that took in some cases to aberrant interventions like giving points him in the vagina of women who were not virgin to simulate that they were it, today no longer is a good so appraised as, once safe for recalcitrant machistas, old dinosaurios of the past which this way they want to continue holding the dominion and control on the women.

By all means, that a young person wants to arrive virgin at the marriage, with his conserved hymen, is a sovereign decision that always there is to respect. The Sexólogos we do not promote that the young people must maintain relations precociously sexual, but advocated that they can get to do it in a frame of security, confidence and affection, when they wish it, without impositions nor prohibitions.

The trauma designates, first of all, a personal event of the history of the subject, whose date can settle down with exactitude, and that is subjectively important by the laborious effects that it can trigger; it cannot be spoken of traumatic events of an absolute way, without considering the own susceptibility of each individual.

Of the sexual experiences that can be lived as traumatic we could mention: incestuosas relations, sexual violations, abuses, a seduction homo or heterosexual of an adult to niñ@s or young people, salary surprised during the sexual act, that as a result of that only sexual act has taken place a pregnancy nonwished that it culminated in abortion, the initiation with a brutal and thoughtless companion, etc. In spite of the undeniable importance of a fact of this type, contemporary psychology already has let consider that a single cause can determine how there is to be the future life of that individual. Today it is preferred to speak of the multicausality (Freud spoke of sobredetermination) and not of a mere relation causaefecto between the traumatic fact and the later sexual experiences.

Beginning with prostitute

Caesar, 14 years: Which is the difference between making debut with one prostitute or with a friend?

Mariano, 17 years: Is not better to begin with prostitutas to learn?

The basic difference is given, appealing to the conditions above-mentioned, by the frame of affective security, mutual confidence, love and, also, by the possibility of a greater stability and frequency of encounter with that pair.

In the case of prostitutes to many young people the possibility worries to them of contracting some disease of sexual transmission. This does not happen to him with the friend but, in counterpart, it troubles the fear to embarrass it. Anyway, we do not think that it is necessary to begin as much with prostitutas, since the experience says to us that, in young people as in adults, it is badly a learning.

We will mention some eloquent phrases referred this type of sexual debut:

“Everything was very cold…”
“It said to Me: we go pibe that becomes behind schedule…”
“Era in a work in construction and was dark… she took hold to me and eyaculé immediately… I did not saw it, I did not know how she was…”
“I entered terrified and he did not hit upon to do nothing, she said to me that he tranquilized to me, but outside my friends began to strike and to shout: apurate skinny! …”
“I was scared so much that I could not do nothing; when I left, by all means I told that he had obtained it.”
“I made debut in a seat with which I knew in the street, and soon after finishing the police arrived and it took to us to both. To me they released to me immediately but to her they said to him that they would apply `article to him’ and it remained inside.”
“It was in the papa deposit and when one of the boys was inside and we played letters, it arrived my old one and it ran us to all of the place…”
The first time

Mario, 21 years: A woman can be pregnant in one first sexual relation?

Final we say that yes, still more: it can be pregnant although it does not mediate penetration and desfloración, since if the man finishes near the vagina the spermatozoa can ascend taking advantage of the vaginal lubrication. So the use of contraceptive methods always prevails. Also a ETS can be infected reason why the use of the preservative prevails.

Paola, 19 years: Is common that a woman finishes in his first time?

As in all the first experiences in the human being time is necessary to occur to be discovering the placenteras possibilities, that not necessarily they arrive in the first contacts. It remembers like were clumsy the first steps, the first time that you wrote, the first kiss, the first dance. Then: in the debut it can be that they have a orgásmica experience, but habitual, due to the great expectation and anxiety that this situation involves, is that so famous orgasmo does not appear.

We have compiled some loose phrases of our patients, speaking of its sexual beginnings, these will give a clear idea us of the conflicting thing that they can get to be under certain circumstances:

“I had as much terror in being pregnant that I did not feel anything…”
“When I was of honeymoon was scared, did not know how it was! My husband could do it just to the fourth day…”
“It was not wanted to put condón and I had panic to infect to me of something, in the end used it but I could not enjoy…”
“The truth is that it hurt to me, was as an ardor and my fiancè made a little brutal, I I thought that that was not worth the trouble, luckily soon the thing was improving.”
“We were in the house vestibule and with my fiancè we dealt to do stopped it. Suddenly we saw the light of the dormitory; I had panic of which my father discovered to us…”
This it is a small sample book of initiations not very pleasing, but quite common, specially some years back.

We wanted to brief not as much like peculiar data – or that the famous “night of weddings” very many times he is frustrating due to the inexperience, anxiety and ignorance of both; we even know of cases in which the marriage returned virgin from! to honeymoon. Today, to tell the truth, “the so virgin” young people do not arrive at that night (in all sense) like long ago. As far as the men who prolong their virginity, although they want to complete the sex with penetration, we have spoken extensively in the article on virgin Men.

Sandra, 17 years: Can be that a woman nonblood after first sexual relation?

Yes, it is possible. Before we said that bleeding can appear little; often even there is no blood slope. This it is a fact that does not have importance, safe in those cultures where it is demanded that the sheet appears covered with blood after night of weddings. In them the foresighted mothers advised to their daughters to take a bag with chicken blood to spill it at the suitable moment. In another article of this section we have spoken of the Myth of the hymen.

Graciela, 26 years: Which is the cause of which, in one first relation, the man does not make (sic) erection?

There are diverse circumstances that make notch, “in even the most mentioned”. These can be conditions of anxiety, exigency to satisfy the woman, fear to embarrass it or to hurt it, unfavorable environment, a little collaborating attitude of the pair, fear to the failure. All this can affect the good operation of the man, as well as it can also inhibit the woman. The important thing is that soon this fact to the point is not magnified that is constituted in something obsessive and definitive: that anybody has not been able sometimes is not synonymous of which it will never be able.

Clorinda, 23 years: Is certain what I read in a magazine of which many men have begun with animals? It seems to me an aberration.

This that to Clorinda it seems to him an aberration is common in rural means, where the isolation is so that it takes to have sporadic contacts with animals; fact that, on the other hand, appears described from the Biblical times. In two beautiful films, as Padrone Father and the ballad of Narayama can be observed acts like the mentioned ones. Anyway, he is neither best nor the most advisable thing like sexual experience; although he is infrequent that this type of contacts persists throughout the existence of an individual, unless it never can have possibility of being related to a woman.

The men and the virgins

Daniel, 18 years: A man is debilitated sexually if it has relations with a virgin?

Andrea, 19 years: Existe the rejection of the man before a virgin?

The fear of the men before the feminine virginity is a as old fact as the same history of the humanity. The mystery of that dark cavity grotto where falo of the man penetrates completely without information has intimidated and taken to construct complicated rituals of desfloración, that formerly included the presence of priests specialized in carrying out this task, which although seems strange, fulfilled enormous sacrifice.

In addition, one of the oldest taboos talks about to the contact with the emanated feminine blood of the vagina: one assumed that it had maleficent powers and it could cause weakness, disease and until the death. Today in some Australian tribes the penetration of a virgin is even made at a distance, using instruments of wood or ivory.

In the days of old Greece or of the Roman Empire it was custom that some women yielded their virginity in honor to the God of the fecundity (Príapo), seating on falo turgid of the statue that represented the God. In African tribes these practices of ritual desfloración with falos used by the wizards even persist. In many cases, he himself father of the fiancèe was in charge of this practice before donating it to it to the husband (in those culture the woman considered a mere object property of the father, yielded to the dominion of the husband).

In the Medioevo the feudal gentleman could exert the pernada right call of, that consisted of taking to the fiancèe after the office of the marriage and desflorar it before the husband. This tradition was derived in its beginning of the fear before the contact with the blood of the virgin, but later it was reduced to a mere despotic practice.

At the present time, some men, maintain these magnified ancestral fears in the fóbicos but, luckily for the women, they are the minuses, and today no longer no intermediary looks for, is priest, chamán, statue or village caudillo to act this as, that does not debilitate the man nor “contaminates with impurities”.

Note: for this series of articles some texts of “Sexuality in the pair” were used (Sapetti – Rosenzvaig, Galerna Editorial, 1987).

Susi, 18: so that so much is valued the feminine virginity and not therefore the masculine one?

The valuation of the feminine virginity and the obligation to arrive as so at the marriage have been consequence of the masculine domination and the restoration of patriarcales systems. In order to certify the paternity, the man, it forced to the woman the forced fidelity, to the premarried abstention and the prescription of the virginity until the law of the marriage qualified it, erogando for himself the possibility of everything what it prohibited the woman him. F. Engels supposes that, like consequence, they appear the figures of prostitution and the adultery. The feminine virginity assured in the male, that her woman, had not been had and, like its utensils, its own house, its animals, its inheritance, also the female happened to be object of its property.

At the moment, to a great extent, there is lost the sense of the dominion and the control of the man on the woman; as much small as boys, in general, they decide with greater freedom the moment for having relations that it has to do more with the desire to do the one that with moral, legal or religious rules.
With regard to the men, in another article, we have developed the thematic one of the virgin man even with interesting testimonies.

DEBUT AND PAIN

Pablo, 18: Pain the first time? I have understood that a relation between frenillo exists and its rupture in the debut.
Cynthia, 19: The first sexual relation of a woman always is painful?

A penetration could have been painful for both if for of abrupt way and without previous a vaginal lubrication. This is one more a reason more valid than the rupture of the hymen, even often are neither pain nor no sanguineous losses or, if there are them, it is in minimum amount. In another article we have developed with greater extension the subject of the myth of the hymen. In the man it does not have so that to hurt nor frenillo is cut (a man can be all his life without he is cut to him, in other cases is necessary to arrive at the surgical act), since the vagina is the sufficiently elastic thing like allowing the penetration.

VIRGINITY AND BELIEFS

Omar, 25: Although it never seems strange I had sexual relations and I aspire to arrive at the marriage without them to have had, I consider this like a correct attitude. How take You?
Carmen, 53: Is advisable to arrive virgin at the marriage?
Alberto, 29: I have been leaving with a girl for two years. She is catholic medical instructor and she does not want to have relations before marrying. I want to know if the religion inhibits the sexual feelings.

In relation to the question of Alberto on the possible inhibiting effect of the religion on the sexual feelings we must say that some religions in special of derived from the common trunk judeo-Christian, have condemned and repressed the placenteros aspects of the sexuality, subordinating them its merely reproductive facet.

To maintain or relations sexual is not a decision that will have to be ruined to the intimate election of each person. It is based on the own ideals and beliefs, but these are always influenced by systems of values, familiar or religious pressures. Nevertheless there is nothing criticable or no censurable in the decision to remain virgin, but in the same way the will will have to be respected of those who wishes to begin sexually outside the law of the marriage.

THE FEARS

Noemí, 16: I am much scared to lose the virginity and that later the men do not accept to me.
Marta, 18: I have been of fiancèe for two years, we are wanted. My fiancè began to request to me that we make the love, nevertheless I am scared of which if acceptance and this relation do not continue other they consider less me not being virgin.
Esteban, 21: My fiancèe, who is not virgin, wants to have relations. She gives fear me that she of account of my inexperience. How I must act?
Louis, 22: Which are the fears most common in the young people who have not begun in sex?

Let us think that the young people of our days no longer consider like a supreme good to the virginity. The fears related to the possible loss of the love or the respect of a man to have acceded to maintain sexual relations with him, seem to have more to do with folletines of the years 40 that with the present reality. Although still prohibitions and fears persist in certain social sectors and orthodox religious groups in which it is continued valuing the feminine virginity like a supreme good, thing that we think that it is related to the scorn by the woman and the submission that this one must suffer. In addition if un/a compañero/a, novio/a, rejects to its pair by the mere fact of being virgin is not being confused the part with the whole and it is let value to the other like person.

They do not exist technical certain and precise appropriate for the debut, yes are minimum conditions based on the love, the confidence and the mutual security.

The most frequent fears in the girls are:

To the pain
To being damaged
The social consequences
To that one notices to them
To the pregnancy
To being “a easy girl”
To the object that is going to penetrate in its near space
To being put under
To being left later
To the rejection
To being discovered by its family
To I infect of some disease

In the men they are:

To penetrate
To the blood
Not to have erection
To fail
To not knowing how what to do
Not to find where
To the ridiculous situation
To the hymen
To eyacular before penetrating or “to go away fast”
To make damage
To embarrass
(Adapted of an investigation of Kornhauser- Rosenzvaig, 1985)

Which would be the best conditions for the sexual initiation of the adolescents?

Some of these conditions already were commented but it is worth the trouble to reiterate some requirements necessary to assure a good sexual initiation:

A free and responsible education
Trustworthy information
A suitable and safe place
Time available
Contraceptive and surely reliable, suitable and proven method with previous medical advising
Use of the Profhylactic
To obtain privacy
Knowledge that more express and is not synonymous much of better
To have tolerance, compression and patience towards the other and one same one
Mutual affection and care

Many ask if there is an appropriate age for the sexual initiation: any age indicated for it does not exist.

We can say that, statistically, in Argentina, the men begin around the 15 to 17 years, like the girls. This has come changing with the times, 30 years back, they began between the 13 and the 15, generally with prostitutas and in group, or some better off with the domestic service in its own home, few with its fiancèes or even with relatives.
Soon they appeared saunas and the houses of massages (before tolerance houses were the calls “”). For some men these beginnings had a load of brutal anxiety, with a sensation of deception or real impotence, product of the fear and the hardship: many they would confess to us, years later in the doctor’s office, that in that debut in fact could not begin.
The women however, began more near 20 and many with marriage by means of. At this moment, is commonest the initiation in pair, relations of engagement, comradeship or friendship and usually they have relations in the own houses, their own quarters and, in many cases, with knowledge of his parents.

Certain statistics reveal that in the last year of secondary only a 20% has not had its sexual debut. Also we see it reflected in the consultations done in the pages of Internet, by young people of both smaller sexes of 18 years, asking for contraceptive methods or even for sexual disfunciones.
Perhaps this irritates or surprises many adults, but this one is the reality that, and without entering valorativos judgments, reigns in the present western societies. What puts in the rug that, a dialogue more opened between parents and children, of both sexes, without faults neither dictatorial recriminaciones nor attitudes, is an urgent necessity of our times.

Ages of sexual initiation average in some countries:

Argentina: men 14,9 years, women 15.7
Chile: men 16,2, women 17.2
USA: men 14,5, women 15.7
Spain: men 13,1, women 14.1

The questions that we have gathered throughout our professional work show that the sexual initiation, the first relation of penetration, continues being a landmark, an important and significant experience.

The adolescents usually express three fundamental preoccupations: how, when and where (Kornhauser – Rosenszvaig).
Exist a suitable and correct age for the initiation?
Hay an ideal form to make it?
What means to be prepared for that moment?

This is a stage of great commitment and begins the goodbye of the infantile body (now memory that beautiful film “Account with me” of Rob Reiner based on the story “The body” of Stephen King). We do not forget that that stage, somehow, will be recorded for always. After the debut, no longer we are such. As of that moment the behavior changes: initiation is symbol of independence, of passage of endogamia familiar to exogamia, of growth, of property to other group (the world is divided, for the young person, between “those that did it” and the one of “that still did not do it”) and is an important step in the separation respect to the parents, to such point that in many societies passage rites subsist, with ceremonies and rituals.

In addition, when the woman has her companion behind, it can stimulate the chest, clítoris and the vagina with greater facility.

Almost always are men those that takes initiative, since the great majority of the women declares that this sexual activity does not satisfy them, this can be due to the pain that can cause if it tries itself to make with little lubrication; often it is essential to use dilatadoras creams. ”

ADVICE

It is important to adopt a suitable position. Many women prefer to be above to regulate the speed at which the penetration is carried out. To others they like to ease up mouth-down, to put to four legs like the penetrated triggers or being while they are fallen down of side.
You choose as he is the best one for you before beginning.
Wait all along that necesiteis and you use a great amount of lubricant.
If she says to you that she begins to hurt, she backs down, she removes your penis and she applies more lubricant.
It can arrive a little while during the sex in which its anus relaxes the sufficient thing like allowing that the end of your penis leaves natural form.
If it is completely relaxed, this “debera exit” to feel of a totally painless form.
First and main that needs to make possible anal sex is Patience. The initial penetration is always the most difficult part.

The anus is a narrow ring of meat to the entrance of the rectum, that it has like mission to control the elimination of the corporal remainders. Partially it is controlled by the will but also he is partially receptive to external stimulation.
Your pair must relax and you must go slowly to urge it to open the sufficient thing like receiving your penis.

He begins with a finger or lubricated or a thin consolador (than more small than your penis).
The consolador is more real, but your fingers can be flexionar and feel what they are doing within his anus.

A finger within its anus slides very slowly allowing him that it adjusts to him.
It removes your finger totally and soon it returns to introduce it. It gives time to his anus for accustomed to this type of activity.

Soon it introduces a second finger. If we considered the size of a normal penis, probably two fingers are than sufficient more.

“Cunnilingus derives from two Latin words:” cunus “(vulva) and” lingere “(lick).
“Fellatio derives from the Latin word” fellare, “which means” to lick “.

When two people engage in oral sex simultaneously with one another, they say they are practicing for 69, for the relationship between the position of the bodies and of the numbers.

The cunnilingus and Fellatio are common practices in both same-sex couples as opposite sex couples. Oral sex can be practiced in different postures of the body, but it is always the mouth that gives pleasure. In the cunnilingus kiss, lick and suck slightly lips, the clitoris and the vaginal area. In Fellatio lick, kiss and suck the whole surface and glans penis. Both in the cunnilingus, as in Fellatio, the warm moisture from the mouth and tongue on the genitals, it is very nice.

Not everyone practiced oral sex, as some people makes them feel uncomfortable. It is as normal and correct the practice did not like the practice and enjoy it. However, it is interesting to note that, according to research conducted over the past forty years, oral sex is becoming increasingly accepted as a normal practice, despite the traditional view that it was a sin and something unnatural and despite some legal and religious prohibitions.

And as is done?

To them:
“With your fingertips, playing with her hair public, grabs the lips, boards and kiss slowly.
“Open step by separating your lips gently with your nose and let your tongue caresses her sex.
“Form circled slowly with your nose, lips and chin.
‘He claims to your lips to it.
“Kiss her deeply.
“Chews and gently suck the clitoris.
“You try to take your clitoris between your lips.
“When you notice your sex very humid, softly blowing.
“It causes a very pleasant feeling.
“Form a” U “with the language and propiciale long and soft lamidas, beginning in the clitoris and ending at the entrance to her vagina.
“Harden your tongue (as when you make fun of) and plays with her at the entrance to her vagina, trying to place it inside.

To them:
“It forms a ‘W’ with the lips, carefully put them on the tip of its member and moves the head in tiny circles.
“Put your lips adjusted to the trunk and travel, first to one side then the other.
“Take the tip of his penis gently between your lips, with quick turns, kiss it tenderly and pulling back from its soft skin.
“It allows the glans to slide completely into your mouth and press the trunk firmly between your lips.
“Hold the pressure for a moment before release.
“Form a circle with your new lips and kissed all along its length, sucking and kissing at the same time.
“As long kiss, it allows your tongue” flutter “throughout his penis ending at the end. Beaten repeatedly with it the sensitive tip of the glans.
“It allows its member enters your mouth as deeply as possible (without drowning, female), pressing it and suck.

Tips for women on oral sex for …

• Do not take literally the words that are said in a moment of pleasure.
• Start slowly and smoothly.
• Let him guide you.
• Do it if you really feel and you feel like.
• Relax and take it like a game.
• Do not obsessions with one hand
• Remember, it’s a sensitive area.
• Hands also play an important role
• Do not go directly to the pleasure zone. Fondling and kissing can also be part of the game.

Tips for men

• There is not, create it
• Do it if you really feel and you feel like.
• Take it easy, relax, and that will take you a while.
• If it walks you, let yourself go. She knows why he does.
• If you are shy and are not encouraged to say what he wants, pay attention to your breathing and gestures, and you will notice if you’re on track.
• Speed is not the same as skill.
• Remember that it is an extremely sensitive area, be gentle or cause the opposite effect.
• If she refuses, do not push: something will be.
• Each woman is a world, so I do not think you’re an expert.
• Most important: with practice and patience, you learn

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“In cultures before ours, the spiritual guide or healer had to discern how much of what type of mushroom to use for what purposes, because the strength of psychoactive mushrooms varies from species to species and even from specimen to specimen,” said Roland Griffiths, Ph.D., a professor of psychiatry and behavioral sciences and neuroscience at the Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine and the study’s lead scientist.
“In our laboratory, we’re working with the pure chemical psilocybin, which we can measure out precisely,” he added. “We wanted to take a methodical look at how its effects change with dosage. We seem to have found levels of the substance and particular conditions for its use that give a high probability of a profound and beneficial experience, a low enough probability of psychological struggle, and very little risk of any actual harm.”
The researchers said 94 percent of the study’s 18 participants rated their experiences with psilocybin as among the top five most or as the top most spiritually significant experience of his or her life at a 14-month follow-up. Eighty-four percent also reported positive changes in their behaviors, changes like improved relationships with family and others, increased physical and psychological self-care, and increased devotion to spiritual practice, which were corroborated by family members and others.
“I feel that I relate better in my marriage,” one participant reported. “There is more empathy – a greater understanding of people and understanding their difficulties and less judgment.”
The participants, ages 29 to 62, were screened to include only those who were deemed psychologically and physically healthy. Each participant received five closely-monitored, eight-hour psilocybin sessions a month apart. Each session had a different dose of psilocybin, with one session using a placebo, and was “blind,” meaning neither the participants, the monitors, nor the scientists knew how much psilocybin – if any – had been given during any session.
At higher doses of psilocybin, nearly a third of the participants experienced great fear or had delusions, but with gentle guidance from researchers, those reactions did not outlast the psilocybin session or harm the participants. Those who received lower doses of the psychedelic before the higher doses were the most likely to have long-lasting positive changes in attitudes and behavior.
Potential psychotherapeutic value of ‘magic mushrooms’
“The Hopkins psilocybin studies clearly demonstrate that this route to the mystical is not to be walked alone,” Jerome Jaffe, M.D., who served as the first White House “Drug Czar,” commented. “But they have also demonstrated significant and lasting benefits.”
“That raises two questions: Could psilocybin-occasioned experiences prove therapeutically useful, for example in dealing with the psychological distress experienced by some terminal patients? And should properly-informed citizens, not in distress, be allowed to receive psilocybin for its possible spiritual benefits, as we now allow them to pursue other possibly risky activities such as cosmetic surgery and mountain-climbing?”
A similar study published in the Archives of General Psychiatry in January found psilocybin can safely improve the moods of patients with advanced-stage cancer and anxiety.
The study was headed by Dr. Charles S. Grob, a professor of psychiatry at the Los Angeles Biomedical Research Institute at Harbor-UCLA Medical Center and found a significant improvement of mood and a reduction in symptoms of anxiety up to six months after receiving psilocybin-assisted therapy.
“We are working with a patient population that often does not respond well to conventional treatments,” said Grob. “Following their treatments with psilocybin, the patients and their families reported benefit from the use of this hallucinogen in reducing their anxiety. This study shows psilocybin can be administered safely, and that further investigation of hallucinogens should be pursued to determine their potential benefits.”
Although some may be concerned that a relatively unstudied and illegal substance such as psilocybin could pose health risks, a study published in the Psychopharmacology in 2004 found there is “no cause for concern that [psilocybin] is hazardous with respect to somatic health” in healthy adults.
The only physiological side-effects the study found was a brief increase in blood pressure and a small increase in levels of thyroid-stimulating-hormone (TSH), prolactin, cortisol, and adrenocorticotropic hormone. None of these side-effects were considered dangerous to healthy adults.
“Typically, the experiences after [medium and high doses of psilocybin] were rated positive, with retrospective statements ranging from ‘pleasurable’ to ‘ineffably beautiful,’ ” according to the study. One volunteer had a fearful experience after being given a high dose of psilocybin, but his anxiety was resolved without the need for pharmacological intervention.
“We know that psilocybin is remarkably non-toxic to the body’s organ systems,” Matthew Johnson, Ph.D., an assistant professor of psychiatry and behavioral sciences at Johns Hopkins and lead author of an earlier Hopkins paper on hallucinogen safety remarked. “But there are indirect risks: if someone experiences high anxiety, fear, or paranoia during a psilocybin session, it’s not hard to imagine them behaving in ways harmful to themselves or others.”
“These risks appear to be minimized when volunteers develop a trusting relationship with a skilled monitor, who remains present with them for the duration of the substance’s primary effects, and who is available afterwards for consultation.”

  The EVOLUTION of the personality, the corporal development and the appearance of the sexual characters

The EVOLUTION of the personality, the corporal development and the appearance of the secondary sexual characters with the arrival of the complete sexual maturity constitute the set of complex psychic and physical changes that the individual in this phase of its development experiences

The puberty is a period of transition between the adolescence and the adult age; during this phase of the development they appear and the sexual characters are completed, the genital organs increase of volume and mature, the growth is accelerated and important changes of psychological order take place.

The fertility, that is to say, the capacity of the man to fertilize and the one of the woman of being fertilized, marks the arrival of the complete sexual maturity.
The fertility is pronounced in the men with the sperm emission that contains spermatozoa, and in the women with the appearance of the first menstrual cycle ovulatory. The age of appearance of the puberty varies considerably from a subject to another one, based on ethnic and social environmental factors.
In this century it has been attended a progressive reduction of the pubertal age.
At the moment the age of beginning of the puberty varies in the children between the 8 and 13 years and in the children between the 10 and 14 years.

THE SEXUAL MATURATION

The departure point of the maturation process is located in a specific zone of the denominated brain hypothalamus and in a gland (hypophysis) located in the base of the brain. By virtue of a mechanism not totally clarified still, a gradual increase of the secretion of hormones of the hypophysis takes place (gonadotropins), that causes the maturation of the ovaries and the testicles and the estrogen production and testosterone, respectively. The increase of the concentration in blood of testosterone in the man and estrogens in the woman gives rise to the development and the maturation of the genitals and to the appearance of the own sexual characters of each sex.
It is still not known and it continues being subject of investigation of the endocrinologist what is what causes the activation of the hypothalamus.
The endocrine system hypothalamus-hypophysis-gonadas (ovaries and testicles) would be in effect potentially able to also work to a prepuberal age. On the other hand, it is considered that the central nervous system exerts in prepuberal age a blockade on the hipotalamics centers and the hypophysis cells