What Claudius says is a fantasy very common in the young people, and the adults even: the hymen obturates all the vaginal entrance. In fact it is an elastic membrane, an embryonic remainder without no utility, that borders the vaginal wall but without occluding it. Therefore, there is no problem so that it leaves the menstruation. When yes it occludes it totally – made rare luckily -, imperforado hymen is denominated: the blood does not lower, it is accumulated in the uterus (hematocolpos) and is necessary to make an operation. But in the immense majority of the cases the hymen is like an edge that allows with all facility the peneana penetration unless, by little lubrication or fear, it becomes uncomfortable or it bothers.

A penetration can be painful the first physiological or even external time, for both, if it becomes of an abrupt way and without a vaginal lubrication, (I advise, in certain cases, to also lubricate the penis). This is a much more valid reason that the rupture of the hymen; even, often, there are neither pain nor no sanguineous losses or are in minimum amount. The hymen can “be broken” in gymnastic practices, equitación, cycling or during some effort.

Of all ways conservation of hymen until marriage, that took in some cases to aberrant interventions like giving points him in the vagina of women who were not virgin to simulate that they were it, today no longer is a good so appraised as, once safe for recalcitrant machistas, old dinosaurios of the past which this way they want to continue holding the dominion and control on the women.

By all means, that a young person wants to arrive virgin at the marriage, with his conserved hymen, is a sovereign decision that always there is to respect. The Sexólogos we do not promote that the young people must maintain relations precociously sexual, but advocated that they can get to do it in a frame of security, confidence and affection, when they wish it, without impositions nor prohibitions.

The trauma designates, first of all, a personal event of the history of the subject, whose date can settle down with exactitude, and that is subjectively important by the laborious effects that it can trigger; it cannot be spoken of traumatic events of an absolute way, without considering the own susceptibility of each individual.

Of the sexual experiences that can be lived as traumatic we could mention: incestuosas relations, sexual violations, abuses, a seduction homo or heterosexual of an adult to niñ@s or young people, salary surprised during the sexual act, that as a result of that only sexual act has taken place a pregnancy nonwished that it culminated in abortion, the initiation with a brutal and thoughtless companion, etc. In spite of the undeniable importance of a fact of this type, contemporary psychology already has let consider that a single cause can determine how there is to be the future life of that individual. Today it is preferred to speak of the multicausality (Freud spoke of sobredetermination) and not of a mere relation causaefecto between the traumatic fact and the later sexual experiences.

Beginning with prostitute

Caesar, 14 years: Which is the difference between making debut with one prostitute or with a friend?

Mariano, 17 years: Is not better to begin with prostitutas to learn?

The basic difference is given, appealing to the conditions above-mentioned, by the frame of affective security, mutual confidence, love and, also, by the possibility of a greater stability and frequency of encounter with that pair.

In the case of prostitutes to many young people the possibility worries to them of contracting some disease of sexual transmission. This does not happen to him with the friend but, in counterpart, it troubles the fear to embarrass it. Anyway, we do not think that it is necessary to begin as much with prostitutas, since the experience says to us that, in young people as in adults, it is badly a learning.

We will mention some eloquent phrases referred this type of sexual debut:

“Everything was very cold…”
“It said to Me: we go pibe that becomes behind schedule…”
“Era in a work in construction and was dark… she took hold to me and eyaculé immediately… I did not saw it, I did not know how she was…”
“I entered terrified and he did not hit upon to do nothing, she said to me that he tranquilized to me, but outside my friends began to strike and to shout: apurate skinny! …”
“I was scared so much that I could not do nothing; when I left, by all means I told that he had obtained it.”
“I made debut in a seat with which I knew in the street, and soon after finishing the police arrived and it took to us to both. To me they released to me immediately but to her they said to him that they would apply `article to him’ and it remained inside.”
“It was in the papa deposit and when one of the boys was inside and we played letters, it arrived my old one and it ran us to all of the place…”
The first time

Mario, 21 years: A woman can be pregnant in one first sexual relation?

Final we say that yes, still more: it can be pregnant although it does not mediate penetration and desfloración, since if the man finishes near the vagina the spermatozoa can ascend taking advantage of the vaginal lubrication. So the use of contraceptive methods always prevails. Also a ETS can be infected reason why the use of the preservative prevails.

Paola, 19 years: Is common that a woman finishes in his first time?

As in all the first experiences in the human being time is necessary to occur to be discovering the placenteras possibilities, that not necessarily they arrive in the first contacts. It remembers like were clumsy the first steps, the first time that you wrote, the first kiss, the first dance. Then: in the debut it can be that they have a orgásmica experience, but habitual, due to the great expectation and anxiety that this situation involves, is that so famous orgasmo does not appear.

We have compiled some loose phrases of our patients, speaking of its sexual beginnings, these will give a clear idea us of the conflicting thing that they can get to be under certain circumstances:

“I had as much terror in being pregnant that I did not feel anything…”
“When I was of honeymoon was scared, did not know how it was! My husband could do it just to the fourth day…”
“It was not wanted to put condón and I had panic to infect to me of something, in the end used it but I could not enjoy…”
“The truth is that it hurt to me, was as an ardor and my fiancè made a little brutal, I I thought that that was not worth the trouble, luckily soon the thing was improving.”
“We were in the house vestibule and with my fiancè we dealt to do stopped it. Suddenly we saw the light of the dormitory; I had panic of which my father discovered to us…”
This it is a small sample book of initiations not very pleasing, but quite common, specially some years back.

We wanted to brief not as much like peculiar data – or that the famous “night of weddings” very many times he is frustrating due to the inexperience, anxiety and ignorance of both; we even know of cases in which the marriage returned virgin from! to honeymoon. Today, to tell the truth, “the so virgin” young people do not arrive at that night (in all sense) like long ago. As far as the men who prolong their virginity, although they want to complete the sex with penetration, we have spoken extensively in the article on virgin Men.

Sandra, 17 years: Can be that a woman nonblood after first sexual relation?

Yes, it is possible. Before we said that bleeding can appear little; often even there is no blood slope. This it is a fact that does not have importance, safe in those cultures where it is demanded that the sheet appears covered with blood after night of weddings. In them the foresighted mothers advised to their daughters to take a bag with chicken blood to spill it at the suitable moment. In another article of this section we have spoken of the Myth of the hymen.

Graciela, 26 years: Which is the cause of which, in one first relation, the man does not make (sic) erection?

There are diverse circumstances that make notch, “in even the most mentioned”. These can be conditions of anxiety, exigency to satisfy the woman, fear to embarrass it or to hurt it, unfavorable environment, a little collaborating attitude of the pair, fear to the failure. All this can affect the good operation of the man, as well as it can also inhibit the woman. The important thing is that soon this fact to the point is not magnified that is constituted in something obsessive and definitive: that anybody has not been able sometimes is not synonymous of which it will never be able.

Clorinda, 23 years: Is certain what I read in a magazine of which many men have begun with animals? It seems to me an aberration.

This that to Clorinda it seems to him an aberration is common in rural means, where the isolation is so that it takes to have sporadic contacts with animals; fact that, on the other hand, appears described from the Biblical times. In two beautiful films, as Padrone Father and the ballad of Narayama can be observed acts like the mentioned ones. Anyway, he is neither best nor the most advisable thing like sexual experience; although he is infrequent that this type of contacts persists throughout the existence of an individual, unless it never can have possibility of being related to a woman.

The men and the virgins

Daniel, 18 years: A man is debilitated sexually if it has relations with a virgin?

Andrea, 19 years: Existe the rejection of the man before a virgin?

The fear of the men before the feminine virginity is a as old fact as the same history of the humanity. The mystery of that dark cavity grotto where falo of the man penetrates completely without information has intimidated and taken to construct complicated rituals of desfloración, that formerly included the presence of priests specialized in carrying out this task, which although seems strange, fulfilled enormous sacrifice.

In addition, one of the oldest taboos talks about to the contact with the emanated feminine blood of the vagina: one assumed that it had maleficent powers and it could cause weakness, disease and until the death. Today in some Australian tribes the penetration of a virgin is even made at a distance, using instruments of wood or ivory.

In the days of old Greece or of the Roman Empire it was custom that some women yielded their virginity in honor to the God of the fecundity (Príapo), seating on falo turgid of the statue that represented the God. In African tribes these practices of ritual desfloración with falos used by the wizards even persist. In many cases, he himself father of the fiancèe was in charge of this practice before donating it to it to the husband (in those culture the woman considered a mere object property of the father, yielded to the dominion of the husband).

In the Medioevo the feudal gentleman could exert the pernada right call of, that consisted of taking to the fiancèe after the office of the marriage and desflorar it before the husband. This tradition was derived in its beginning of the fear before the contact with the blood of the virgin, but later it was reduced to a mere despotic practice.

At the present time, some men, maintain these magnified ancestral fears in the fóbicos but, luckily for the women, they are the minuses, and today no longer no intermediary looks for, is priest, chamán, statue or village caudillo to act this as, that does not debilitate the man nor “contaminates with impurities”.

Note: for this series of articles some texts of “Sexuality in the pair” were used (Sapetti – Rosenzvaig, Galerna Editorial, 1987).

Susi, 18: so that so much is valued the feminine virginity and not therefore the masculine one?

The valuation of the feminine virginity and the obligation to arrive as so at the marriage have been consequence of the masculine domination and the restoration of patriarcales systems. In order to certify the paternity, the man, it forced to the woman the forced fidelity, to the premarried abstention and the prescription of the virginity until the law of the marriage qualified it, erogando for himself the possibility of everything what it prohibited the woman him. F. Engels supposes that, like consequence, they appear the figures of prostitution and the adultery. The feminine virginity assured in the male, that her woman, had not been had and, like its utensils, its own house, its animals, its inheritance, also the female happened to be object of its property.

At the moment, to a great extent, there is lost the sense of the dominion and the control of the man on the woman; as much small as boys, in general, they decide with greater freedom the moment for having relations that it has to do more with the desire to do the one that with moral, legal or religious rules.
With regard to the men, in another article, we have developed the thematic one of the virgin man even with interesting testimonies.

DEBUT AND PAIN

Pablo, 18: Pain the first time? I have understood that a relation between frenillo exists and its rupture in the debut.
Cynthia, 19: The first sexual relation of a woman always is painful?

A penetration could have been painful for both if for of abrupt way and without previous a vaginal lubrication. This is one more a reason more valid than the rupture of the hymen, even often are neither pain nor no sanguineous losses or, if there are them, it is in minimum amount. In another article we have developed with greater extension the subject of the myth of the hymen. In the man it does not have so that to hurt nor frenillo is cut (a man can be all his life without he is cut to him, in other cases is necessary to arrive at the surgical act), since the vagina is the sufficiently elastic thing like allowing the penetration.

VIRGINITY AND BELIEFS

Omar, 25: Although it never seems strange I had sexual relations and I aspire to arrive at the marriage without them to have had, I consider this like a correct attitude. How take You?
Carmen, 53: Is advisable to arrive virgin at the marriage?
Alberto, 29: I have been leaving with a girl for two years. She is catholic medical instructor and she does not want to have relations before marrying. I want to know if the religion inhibits the sexual feelings.

In relation to the question of Alberto on the possible inhibiting effect of the religion on the sexual feelings we must say that some religions in special of derived from the common trunk judeo-Christian, have condemned and repressed the placenteros aspects of the sexuality, subordinating them its merely reproductive facet.

To maintain or relations sexual is not a decision that will have to be ruined to the intimate election of each person. It is based on the own ideals and beliefs, but these are always influenced by systems of values, familiar or religious pressures. Nevertheless there is nothing criticable or no censurable in the decision to remain virgin, but in the same way the will will have to be respected of those who wishes to begin sexually outside the law of the marriage.

THE FEARS

Noemí, 16: I am much scared to lose the virginity and that later the men do not accept to me.
Marta, 18: I have been of fiancèe for two years, we are wanted. My fiancè began to request to me that we make the love, nevertheless I am scared of which if acceptance and this relation do not continue other they consider less me not being virgin.
Esteban, 21: My fiancèe, who is not virgin, wants to have relations. She gives fear me that she of account of my inexperience. How I must act?
Louis, 22: Which are the fears most common in the young people who have not begun in sex?

Let us think that the young people of our days no longer consider like a supreme good to the virginity. The fears related to the possible loss of the love or the respect of a man to have acceded to maintain sexual relations with him, seem to have more to do with folletines of the years 40 that with the present reality. Although still prohibitions and fears persist in certain social sectors and orthodox religious groups in which it is continued valuing the feminine virginity like a supreme good, thing that we think that it is related to the scorn by the woman and the submission that this one must suffer. In addition if un/a compañero/a, novio/a, rejects to its pair by the mere fact of being virgin is not being confused the part with the whole and it is let value to the other like person.

They do not exist technical certain and precise appropriate for the debut, yes are minimum conditions based on the love, the confidence and the mutual security.

The most frequent fears in the girls are:

To the pain
To being damaged
The social consequences
To that one notices to them
To the pregnancy
To being “a easy girl”
To the object that is going to penetrate in its near space
To being put under
To being left later
To the rejection
To being discovered by its family
To I infect of some disease

In the men they are:

To penetrate
To the blood
Not to have erection
To fail
To not knowing how what to do
Not to find where
To the ridiculous situation
To the hymen
To eyacular before penetrating or “to go away fast”
To make damage
To embarrass
(Adapted of an investigation of Kornhauser- Rosenzvaig, 1985)

Which would be the best conditions for the sexual initiation of the adolescents?

Some of these conditions already were commented but it is worth the trouble to reiterate some requirements necessary to assure a good sexual initiation:

A free and responsible education
Trustworthy information
A suitable and safe place
Time available
Contraceptive and surely reliable, suitable and proven method with previous medical advising
Use of the Profhylactic
To obtain privacy
Knowledge that more express and is not synonymous much of better
To have tolerance, compression and patience towards the other and one same one
Mutual affection and care

Many ask if there is an appropriate age for the sexual initiation: any age indicated for it does not exist.

We can say that, statistically, in Argentina, the men begin around the 15 to 17 years, like the girls. This has come changing with the times, 30 years back, they began between the 13 and the 15, generally with prostitutas and in group, or some better off with the domestic service in its own home, few with its fiancèes or even with relatives.
Soon they appeared saunas and the houses of massages (before tolerance houses were the calls “”). For some men these beginnings had a load of brutal anxiety, with a sensation of deception or real impotence, product of the fear and the hardship: many they would confess to us, years later in the doctor’s office, that in that debut in fact could not begin.
The women however, began more near 20 and many with marriage by means of. At this moment, is commonest the initiation in pair, relations of engagement, comradeship or friendship and usually they have relations in the own houses, their own quarters and, in many cases, with knowledge of his parents.

Certain statistics reveal that in the last year of secondary only a 20% has not had its sexual debut. Also we see it reflected in the consultations done in the pages of Internet, by young people of both smaller sexes of 18 years, asking for contraceptive methods or even for sexual disfunciones.
Perhaps this irritates or surprises many adults, but this one is the reality that, and without entering valorativos judgments, reigns in the present western societies. What puts in the rug that, a dialogue more opened between parents and children, of both sexes, without faults neither dictatorial recriminaciones nor attitudes, is an urgent necessity of our times.

Ages of sexual initiation average in some countries:

Argentina: men 14,9 years, women 15.7
Chile: men 16,2, women 17.2
USA: men 14,5, women 15.7
Spain: men 13,1, women 14.1

The questions that we have gathered throughout our professional work show that the sexual initiation, the first relation of penetration, continues being a landmark, an important and significant experience.

The adolescents usually express three fundamental preoccupations: how, when and where (Kornhauser – Rosenszvaig).
Exist a suitable and correct age for the initiation?
Hay an ideal form to make it?
What means to be prepared for that moment?

This is a stage of great commitment and begins the goodbye of the infantile body (now memory that beautiful film “Account with me” of Rob Reiner based on the story “The body” of Stephen King). We do not forget that that stage, somehow, will be recorded for always. After the debut, no longer we are such. As of that moment the behavior changes: initiation is symbol of independence, of passage of endogamia familiar to exogamia, of growth, of property to other group (the world is divided, for the young person, between “those that did it” and the one of “that still did not do it”) and is an important step in the separation respect to the parents, to such point that in many societies passage rites subsist, with ceremonies and rituals.

In the woman.
The first “external” manifestation of the pubertal development in the women is the responsibility of the mammary glands.
The areola (dark zone around the nipple) begins to extend itself and to rise. Later all the breast begins to take form.
In the first year of the development, the breast adopts a conical form, but when it approaches the first menstruation is well-off.
Immediately after the development of the sines, it begins to grow hair in the pubic region, and, later, also in the armpits.
At the same time, a widening of the hips takes place and the skin also changes of aspect. The cutaneous pores open and secrete more fat; the “black points or blackheads” form therefore, due to the association of the fat with the dust and the dirt. It is very easy that the germs penetrate in these “black points” and produce a small infection or furunculous. In the man.
The first important point that there is to remember with regard to the pubertal development of the men is that the boy begins to later mature about two years that the girl.
The boy begins to grow in height at a double speed that the one of before.
The penis, the testicles and scrotum (the coat in that are contents the testicles) are also developed quickly. In the first place the hairs of pubis grow soon and those of the armpits. The voice changes of tone and it becomes deeper. About two years later, the body of the boy has completed almost totally the passage to man body. In both following years it will grow altogether 5 or 6 centimeters and soon it will practically let grow.
Like the woman, the man can happen through a stage of stupidity in her physical behavior and its emotional reactions; in effect, she has not even acquired the total control of his new organism and its new sensations.
The bumps of their voice nevertheless constitute an example of the measurement in which he is at the same time young and man, without being neither the one nor other.

The BEGINNING of the puberty is associated to an acceleration of the development in the stature of the individual, as a result of the stimulating effect of gonadales hormones on the bones.
However, after one first stage of fast increase of height, the growth stops and successively it stops.
This succession of phenomena must to the peculiar structure of the long bones (femur, tibia, chimney) in the boy and to his form of growth. In the prepuberal age, the long bones are formed on the one hand central of cylindrical form (shaft) and by two terminal parts or epiphysis.
Each end of the shaft is united to the corresponding epiphysis by means of a zone of cartilaginous weave called growth or conjunction cartilage.

The bony weave of new formation is deposited in limits of the cartilaginous zone and the bone undergoes a progressive extension. In prepuberal age the growth process is regulated by the hormone of growth of origin hipofísiarío.
In the puberty, the process of growth of the bones is accelerated and the growth in stature undergoes a clear increase. The bony weave grows, nevertheless, at a speed superior to the one of the conjunction cartilage, that, in years, finishes being squashed.
This it is the moment at which the bone adopts its definitive structure: shaft and epiphysis knit and the growth stops.
Given these premises, it is easy to include/understand that in the presence of an excess of gonad hormones it is registered, after a precocious growth in stature, a precocious weld of the cartilages, with the result of a reduced definitive stature; on the contrary, in patients with gonad insufficiency, it is observed, due to the lack of weld of the conjunction cartilages, a slow but persistent growth during many years, that lead to particular a skeletal conformation, of eunucoide type, characterized by a high stature and very out of proportion long extremities in relation to the trunk.

  The EVOLUTION of the personality, the corporal development and the appearance of the sexual characters

The EVOLUTION of the personality, the corporal development and the appearance of the secondary sexual characters with the arrival of the complete sexual maturity constitute the set of complex psychic and physical changes that the individual in this phase of its development experiences

The puberty is a period of transition between the adolescence and the adult age; during this phase of the development they appear and the sexual characters are completed, the genital organs increase of volume and mature, the growth is accelerated and important changes of psychological order take place.

The fertility, that is to say, the capacity of the man to fertilize and the one of the woman of being fertilized, marks the arrival of the complete sexual maturity.
The fertility is pronounced in the men with the sperm emission that contains spermatozoa, and in the women with the appearance of the first menstrual cycle ovulatory. The age of appearance of the puberty varies considerably from a subject to another one, based on ethnic and social environmental factors.
In this century it has been attended a progressive reduction of the pubertal age.
At the moment the age of beginning of the puberty varies in the children between the 8 and 13 years and in the children between the 10 and 14 years.

THE SEXUAL MATURATION

The departure point of the maturation process is located in a specific zone of the denominated brain hypothalamus and in a gland (hypophysis) located in the base of the brain. By virtue of a mechanism not totally clarified still, a gradual increase of the secretion of hormones of the hypophysis takes place (gonadotropins), that causes the maturation of the ovaries and the testicles and the estrogen production and testosterone, respectively. The increase of the concentration in blood of testosterone in the man and estrogens in the woman gives rise to the development and the maturation of the genitals and to the appearance of the own sexual characters of each sex.
It is still not known and it continues being subject of investigation of the endocrinologist what is what causes the activation of the hypothalamus.
The endocrine system hypothalamus-hypophysis-gonadas (ovaries and testicles) would be in effect potentially able to also work to a prepuberal age. On the other hand, it is considered that the central nervous system exerts in prepuberal age a blockade on the hipotalamics centers and the hypophysis cells

The main alterations that can appear in the puberty refer mainly at the time of their appearance; in effect, it can have a precocious puberty and a delayed puberty, with the consequent anatomical or functional modifications and with different repercussion from the psychic point of view and from the behavior.

The PRECOCIOUS PUBERTY

The appearance of signs of sexual maturity before the physiological age receives the name of precocious puberty.

The age of appearance of the puberty varies remarkably from a population to another one; in our country the inferior limits are accustomed to to be the 9 years for the man and the 8 years for the woman.
Between the different forms from precocious puberty it is necessary to distinguish true the precocious puberty and the precocious pseudopuberty.
True the precocious puberty is characterized by the maturation of the gonads ones (ovaries in the woman and testicles in the man), of the genitals and the secondary sexual characters (hairs, physical aspect, breasts etc.), according to a supposable sequence in its mechanisms and characteristics to the one of the physiological puberty.
True the precocious puberty is secondary to the hypothalamus-pituitary hormonal stimulation and it is associated in the children to menstrual cycles and the men to sperm production.
True the precocious puberty can be triggered more concretely as a result of different causes, that nevertheless almost constantly usually have like common denominator an injury of the central nervous system, and from the hypothalamic region.
Such circumstances occur in the following cases: cerebral tumors, gliomas, craneofaringiomas, astrocitomas, hamartomas; tumors of the epiphysis; and granulomatosas injuries (sarcoidosis, tuberculosis) of the hypothalamic region.

In dysplasia fibrous bony diffuse (syndrome of Albright) true the precocious puberty has its cause in the deformation of the bones of the base of the skull, that due to an effect of local compression stimulates the hypothalamic region. In most of the cases of true precocious puberty, mainly in the woman, it is not possible nevertheless to identify a cause responsible for the sexual maturation.
Neither so at least with the studies modern and specific diagnoses the more (computed axial tomography, stratigraphy) it is possible to show anatomical injuries of encephalon. In these cases, defined as of true and idiopática precocious puberty, alterations of functional order of the nervous mechanisms are evidently in game, that they repress, in pubertal age, the hypothalamus-hipófisis-gónadas activation of the system.

From the practical point of view, the consequences of true the precocious puberty vary remarkably based on that it is about a idiopathic form or a secondary form to a pathological process of the brain.
In this second case the gravity of the disease is closely bound to the nature of the original process (cerebral tumor, granulomatosa injury), to its location and the possibility of surgical extirpation. In the cases of true and idiopathic precocious puberty the sexual maturation lacks in case repercussions on the metabolism and the operation of the genital apparatus.
The consequences fundamentally bear relation to the precocious halting from the growth and the problems of psychological order that must confront the boy in its relation with the other children of its age.
In the precocious pseudopuberty development of the genitals and the secondary sexual characters takes place, without maturation of the gonads ones.
It must to the pathological production of sexual hormones on the part of the suprarenal’s or a tumor of the gonads ones.
The present gonads hormones in the circulatory torrent give rise to the development of the secondary sexual characters, but they block the secretion of the gonadotropinas and inhibit the development of the gonads ones.
Sterility is constant, with absence of menstrual cycles in the woman and production of spermatozoa in the man,
In the precocious pseudopuberty the development of the secondary sexual characters can take place in harmony with genetic sex (isosexual pseudopuberty), or in discordance with this one (heterosexual pseudopuberty), reason why appear signs of malezation in the woman and feminization in the man.
The precocious pseudopuberty is characterized in the man by a precocious increase of the genital organs and by the growth in stature (macrogenitosomíal), in contrast to the presence of small testicles of infantile type.
The secondary sexual characters usually are present, mainly with respect to the development of the hairs.
The precocious pseudopuberty must in the man to an excessive androgen production, either of suprarrenal origin in case of suprarenal tumor or hyperplasia, or of gonadal origin, by testicular tumors.
Secondary cases have also been described neoplasias of nonendocrinos organs, that secrete coriónica gonadotropin (HCG).
In the woman, the precocious pseudopuberty of isosexual type has its origin in producing ovarian estrogen tumors.
The heterosexual precocious pseudopuberty, characterized by abnormal development of clitoris and appearance of secondary sexual characters of masculine type, must to the hypersecretion of androgens on the part of suprarrenales tumors.
Certain enzymatic deficiencies responsible for hiperplasy suprarenal congenital also cause in the woman, in addition to pseudohermafroditismo, heterosexual precocious pseudopuberty.

Forms to incomplete precocious puberty exist in addition when an isolated sexual character is developed precociously.
The most frequent forms are the development of the breasts in the woman and the púbicos hairs. One is anomalies of development nonassociated to alterations of hormonal order, observable in boys of the same age and, in general, without gravity; one thinks that they must to a particular reaction of peripheral weaves front to the action of gonadales hormones.
They can also appear producing signs of precocious sexual maturation in case of neoplasy of gonadotropins. This condition of secondary endocrine dysfunction to one neoplasy is observed of exceptional form in the prepuberal age, since the appearance of neoplasics forms of this type in the adolescence is very rare.
It is possible finally to remember the cases, nothing on the other hand rare, of precocious puberty by drug administration or presence in foods of small amounts of sexual hormones, administered to the cattle with object to accelerate his growth.
Usually one is forms of incomplete precocious puberty.

The opposition to the local or international policy, can turn a center of youthful protest, in a world-wide movement.

The parents say that when their children are small, they always above have them, when they arrive at the adolescence, complain of which as soon as they see them. He is natural that the young people spend the greater possible time with their comrades.

  The kiss of Gustav Klimt symbolizes the romantic aspects of the sexual contact. The masculine power this in its zenith and must find insistent and primitive lightening to that force that is expressed almost always of bold and vulgar forms, but that coarse passion can show an extraordinary tenderness.

Romeo and Juliet symbolize to the young people who defy the settled down conventions, with the force that she impels to independence

Others, victims, try to force their children to that they tell everything them, since they used to do of small. But the secrets are a necessary part in the evolution towards the maturity and they would be due to respect as something own of the natural impulse towards independence. In any case, most of the secrets of the adolescents they are innocent, and those that are not it are better than they share other adults who are not the parents.

The privacy is a right of all the human beings, of any age and sex; the forced secrets only lead to the resentment. On the other hand, the adolescents also need compression and for that reason they can need to trust to some adult, although he is preferable who are not the parents. He is habitual, although something amazing, that the parents find easier the one than the adolescent children of their friendships trust to them that the one that does his own ones of the same age. He is typical that the adolescents struggle between contradictory impulses. Its desire to have secrets is against to its necessity to be included/understood by the adults.

Their desires to live their own lives face the necessity to request advice on many aspects of the life which not yet they have faced. Actually, it is difficult to them to be independent if they must ask money the adults. It is difficult to privily maintain a commitment or an appointment social, if they need desperately that it is advised to them and it tranquilized on which they must put and how they must behave. Depending on the parents badly imposes received restrictions and often it leads to frustrations, but also independence entails an undesirable anxiety. Only one mutual tolerance between adolescent parents and children will manage to help in this difficult phase, avoiding continuous conflicts